Whitney Carpenter, an oncology nurse at Levine Cancer Institute in South Carolina, is transforming patient care with an innovative idea gaining national attention. Featured on CBS News’ Heart of AmericaHeart of America, she makes specialized shirts for cancer patients undergoing chemotherapy, providing them at no cost. These shirts address a significant issue for patients with chest ports—maintaining comfort and dignity during treatment.
For many, accessing a port during chemotherapy is physically uncomfortable and emotionally challenging. Traditional clothing often doesn’t meet the unique needs of port access, requiring awkward adjustments that leave patients feeling exposed. Specialized port shirts exist but can cost over $100, making them inaccessible for many facing high medical bills.
Carpenter recognized this care gap and began crafting port shirts with discreet openings. These handmade garments solve logistical issues and provide patients with personalized care, comfort and dignity during their difficult journeys. “Because you get to know these people and you care for them in the most difficult time of their lives. It's such a rewarding and fulfilling job to have, but just that little act, I hope, makes them smile."
"And it's such a rewarding and fulfilling job to have. But just that little act, I hope, makes them smile."
— Whitney Carpenter
What are port shirts?
Cancer patients who undergo regular chemotherapy often have a small medical device called a port implanted in their chest. This device makes it easier for healthcare providers to access veins without repeated needle sticks.
Whitney Carpenter with a patient in one of her custom port shirtsAtrium Health
Unfortunately, wearing traditional clothing during treatments can make accessing the port uncomfortable. Port shirts, which feature discreet zippers or openings, solve this problem. However, these specialized garments often have a steep price tag—some exceeding $100—making them out of reach for many patients already coping with the high costs of cancer care.
A nurse’s solution from the heart
Determined to remove this financial obstacle, Carpenter used her sewing skills to create handmade port shirts for her patients. She provides them free of charge, ensuring that those in her care experience greater comfort and convenience during their treatments.
Her thoughtful creations demonstrate how small, personalized acts of compassion can make a world of difference to patients facing one of life’s toughest battles.
Making a difference, one shirt at a time
Carpenter’s homemade port shirts serve as more than just practical clothing; they also enhance the overall patient experience:
- Comfort first: The shirts make it easier to access the port without requiring patients to remove or adjust their clothing, reducing discomfort during treatment sessions.
- Dignity preserved: Patients can maintain privacy and modesty, helping them feel more in control of their care.
- Financial relief: By offering the shirts for free, Carpenter eliminates the burden of purchasing costly specialized clothing.
- Emotional care: This personal touch helps patients feel valued and boosts morale during an emotionally and physically draining time.
Inspiring change in healthcare
Carpenter’s initiative has captured attention across media outlets, sparking conversations about patient-centered innovations in healthcare. Her story reminds others in the medical field that addressing practical and emotional needs can significantly enhance patient care.
Her grassroots effort is a testament to the idea that meaningful healthcare improvements don’t always require cutting-edge technology or extensive funding. Sometimes, all it takes is a simple, compassionate idea and the drive to see it through.
How you can support
Stories like Carpenter’s highlight the need for broader access to affordable solutions for cancer patients. Healthcare providers and communities can take inspiration from her initiative by identifying similar gaps in care and acting to fill them.
If you know someone undergoing chemotherapy, there are thoughtful ways to offer support during their journey. One idea is creating a chemotherapy "go bag" filled with essentials to make treatment days more comfortable. Consider including items like cozy socks, a soft blanket, unscented lotion, ginger candies for nausea, a reusable water bottle, crossword puzzles or adult coloring books for passing the time, and headphones or a relaxing music playlist. Small, personal touches like a handwritten note of encouragement can also go a long way in showing them they’re not alone.
If you’d like to support cancer patients or help provide port shirts to those in need, consider donating to local cancer care charities or volunteering your time and skills. Together, small acts of kindness can create a ripple effect of compassion and innovation.
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The one phrase people most want to ban forever—and 20 more that drive us all nuts
If you’ve ever cringed at hearing “It is what it is” or rolled your eyes at someone saying “No offense…” before delivering something totally offensive, you’re definitely not alone. Some expressions are so irritating, so overused, or so grammatically cursed that hearing them once more might just push us over the edge.
We asked our Facebook audience, “ If you could ban one annoying phrase from existence forever, what would it be?” and holy moly, did the floodgates open. Typically, a given question might rack up around 5,000 comments—but this one? Over 14,000. People shared responses that were funny, petty, brutally honest, and occasionally downright poignant. From phrases that try (and fail) to sound wise, to those so overused they've lost all meaning entirely—here are the top contenders folks are completely done with.
The one phrase nearly everyone wants to vanish
By far the most repeated offender was:
Over and over, users cited this as the ultimate non-response. It’s dismissive, it ends conversations, and it offers exactly zero comfort or help.
Another big category? Expressions meant to comfort that end up being painful or insulting. These include:
Many commenters explained that these phrases, while often well-intentioned, feel dismissive in times of grief or hardship.
Grammar gripes and word crimes
Grammar lovers had a lot of feelings. Some of the most-cited “please stop saying this” phrases included:
And let’s not forget the collective rage over “pacifically” when people mean “specifically.”
Words that reveal more than they intend
Several users took issue with phrases that feel passive-aggressive or intellectually lazy, such as:
As user Jacqueline C. put it, “'To be honest...' What does that mean? That you're not honest any other time?”
Phrases tied to racism, sexism, or toxic positivity
A significant number of respondents took aim at harmful or politically charged phrases. Among them:
These comments weren’t just about annoyance—they were about the emotional weight and social impact of language.
James G. didn’t mince words when he wrote: “‘Go back to your country, then’ 🤬. The epitome of racist. I love my country, plus my ancestors did not ASK to be brought here the way they were.”
Corporate speak and empty buzzwords
You knew these were coming.
These phrases sparked a different kind of rage—one reserved for staff meetings and marketing emails.
Iris H. summed it up: “Most corporate speak. Downsizing. Low hanging fruit. Pivot. etc…..” Just say what you mean, please.
Why this resonated so deeply
There’s something unifying about shared irritation. These phrases might seem harmless or routine, but for many people, they’re like verbal paper cuts—tiny annoyances that, over time, sting a lot more than they should.
Whether it’s poor grammar, dismissive condolences, or flat-out hate speech in disguise, we’re collectively craving language that’s thoughtful, clear, and kind.
So the next time you find yourself reaching for one of these expressions, take a beat. Maybe there’s a better way to say what you mean. Or maybe… just don’t say anything at all.
And if you’ve got your own phrase that should be banished from existence? Don’t worry—there’s still time to add to the list.
Got another phrase that needs to go? Drop it in the comments on our original Facebook post.
Bonus: The top five most hated phrases from our poll
Let’s make 2025 the year we finally stop saying all of them.